Organize This! Understand Before You Reprimand
By Stephanie Calahan (Calahan Solutions, Inc)
Do you have family members that are just not following the routine? Maybe you have put organizing systems into place and you seem to be the only one that is trying to keep it organized? You are not alone. But, before you get too frustrated, listen to this story and see if it can help your situation.
A few years ago, I asked my son (who at the time was 7) to pick up his room and organize his desk. I had been teaching him organizing and “picking up” strategies since he was young, so I was not worried that the job would get done. When I went into his room, his toys were all over his desk! I was frustrated. He had been instructed to put his toys away and instead I saw them all over his desk so random.
A long time ago, I promised myself that I would understand first. So, I held my irritation and asked him:
"David, we talked about organizing your desk. Can you please explain to me what organizing you have done?"
"Mom!" he exclaimed, "I did all KINDS of organizing."