"What I’d failed to realize was that I shouldn’t do those things NOT because of the consequences (because in all truth, much of our life is lived without physical consequences) but because doing what was wrong would break relationship with God, and then eventually others.
It was about relationship. Not about the rules. Because in the right relationship a person doesn’t really need rules.
Let’s just call it the rule of Love. Jesus called it the Greatest Commandment.
If I love God and if I’m concerned about my intimacy with Him, then the more I want to please Him. The more my life will look like a person who is in Love with their Creator. And the more I will live in ways that are righteous and are in line with what we consider “rules”. I’ll need the rules less as a rigid law because I’m focused on pleasing Him (and running everything through that filter). I will begin to do those things naturally that bring me closer to Him."
- An excerpt from The Rule of Love by Sarah Markley on her blog The Best Days of My Life